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How to say “I hate you” in Chinese

From playful to serious

The mildest way to say “I hate you” in Chinese is 我不喜欢你 (wǒ bù xǐ huan nǐ), “I don't like you”. The strongest is 我恨死你了 (wǒ hèn sǐ nǐ le), “I hate you to death”. Here are all 5, ranked mild to strong, with pinyin and when to use each one.

  1. 我不喜欢你

    wǒ bù xǐ huan nǐ

    I don't like you

    The soft no

  2. 我讨厌你

    wǒ tǎo yàn nǐ

    I can't stand you

    Said with a pout, it's flirting

  3. 我烦你

    wǒ fán nǐ

    you annoy me

    The sibling classic

  4. 我恨你

    wǒ hèn nǐ

    I hate you

    Real hate. Drama finale energy

  5. 我恨死你了

    wǒ hèn sǐ nǐ le

    I hate you to death

    Or love you. Depends on the tone

Quick answers

How do you say “I hate you” in Chinese?
The mildest way to say “I hate you” in Chinese is 我不喜欢你 (wǒ bù xǐ huan nǐ), “I don't like you”. The strongest is 我恨死你了 (wǒ hèn sǐ nǐ le), “I hate you to death”. Here are all 5, ranked mild to strong, with pinyin and when to use each one.
What is the mildest way to say “I hate you” in Chinese?
我不喜欢你 (wǒ bù xǐ huan nǐ): I don't like you. The soft no.
What is the strongest way to say “I hate you” in Chinese?
我恨死你了 (wǒ hèn sǐ nǐ le): I hate you to death. Or love you. Depends on the tone.

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